all are my brothers and sisters!!!
what is your definition of a friend?
most people would say like a friend is someone who i can trust and i can have fun and sharing my secrets and emotions and accept me how i am. and if i need him he will be with me and help me in any situation. there are also different types like i have sportfriends or partyfriends ect.
but why you can share this only to a special person?because you feel you can trust him?
and if your best friend shares later your secrets or are not with you when you really needs help
you are pissed and quit the best friends relationship.
so you have a best friend because of your needs.!!!
because you need someone to talk , you need someone to share, you need someone to hang around you need someone to feel accepted you need someone to feel accepted in a
community..ect…and the reason why you only have some special best friends and are not open to everyone is that you are ashame of yourself and dont like that everyone
knows everything of youbecause you are feared that the people are judging you who you really are so you have only some special people where you can feel free to be yourself and share all your stuff.
if you can be yourself all the time without judging yourself you also can accept everyone whoever will come into your life, as your brother and sister, because the judging comes just out from your old belives.
and every feelings which comes up in you are your feelings so you are the creator and you decide
if you are openhearted for everyone or not. so it doesnt matter if your friend is good looking or ugly or you feel a special vibration from the first sight.
you are looking for someone who helps you the most and then you decide by old experiences and belives how deep you let this person into your life. but i
can tell you how more i got openhearted to everyone in my life how more i could learn from everyone.
so stop seperating rich,poor,healthy,ill,crazy,stupid,religous everyone is a little mirror of you.
thank you for all my brothers and sister we are all one
peace love fun unity and freedom