In the last days more and more people write that they having problem they can’t go out they feel too much, they are too sensitive.
They see everything is breaking a part and things and people are going crazy.
I see it also that the old structures are breaking and new things can take their place.
I know many people are ready for the big change and all just want a way of harmony but they don’t want to look at their own problems.
We all just see what’s happening in the outside world all the war ect. and we are going in a helpless position and seeing ourself as a victim from the surcumstances and that we can’t do anything. But in a fact it’s just our lack of selfresponsibility and fear of making decisions/mistakes.
The fear of making decisions is a big illness in our society. We created a „maybe society“, with maybe i mean people still wait for something better and dont want to make a decision so the mostly say maybe. The society wants to tell you that you have many options to choose what you want, but they say then if you do what you want its ego and this is unsocial. But in a fact everything what you do is ego you can’t do anything for someone else!!
The reason that someone calls you an ego is, because they never do something for themself and blaim you for it, they just do things for others for their own ego to feel better, but deep inside they are unhappy, because they never do what their heart really want and the brain starts to excuse,
I can’t do it because of this or that. Every choice you make is your choice you do it or you don’t.
They give you many options for choosing, but in a fact that’s no freedom, because when you have too many options you need to think all the time what do you want more and will have more conflicts and borders and always have a feeling of loosing from the other option.
That’s why people in „poor“ countries mostly are more happy, because they mostly don’t need to decide because there is mostly just one option, you do it or you don’t.
To make it more clear and example from a last relationship.
I invited the girl for a weekend and wrote her what we all can do together and let her choose.
When she was here she didn’t liked to choose and I didn’t cared either, because for me it was just important that we are together it doesn’t matter what we will do. But she was angry that I didn’t made a decision.
So I gave up my selfresponsibility by giving her the choice what to do, if I would say we do this with a clear intention nobody would have a problem.
In the last decades the man forgot to be strong to be a real man and giving clear advises, he became more and more an easy punshing ball by giving away his responsibility. And the woman is used to make decisions what you can see in the nature, because the female choose the male and that’s also why the woman loves more shooping as a man. For a man it’s mostly stress to go somewhere with too much options.
If you give him just one thing he will mostly take it and he will be happy.
Another example my mum wants to bring me something to eat and I should choose between 2 things and I say I don’t care. So she becomes angry because she wants to make me happy with something I like and I don’t want to make her stress for me to get something.So we both stress ourself for being nice to each other. Because she gives me a way to choose by thinking giving me freedom to choose but this is no freedom it’s more a stop because we always need to think what we want more and then mostly we don’t want anything or we want both. So we start to wait for a decision from outside instead of making clear answers.
Can you see now that nobody can make YOU happy!?
It is always YOU and your selfresponsibility and taking action.
And I think you understand now why we have a lot of problems, because we give up our selfresponsibility and wait all the time that something in the outside starts to change.
We blaim the situation instead of ourself !
I thought I am already 4 month in Austria and I feel so stopped.
Of course I could say it’s the energie here in Austria, everyone is greedy, everyone needs a kick in the ass to go forward, it takes so much energie to make just a little step here. This is maybe all right but nobody can stop me to do my own things.But why I am still waiting for a big change.
I was waiting for guidance without having a clear intention and I also didn’t make the step in my mind to say: hey universe what is my next thing to do.?
I was just waiting for my flow to start writing my books or doing workshops or whatever and I felt more and more stressed without really having any stress from the outside. I stressed myself by feeling the fear of being stopped in my flow and didn’t allow myself to stop and integrate.
I have seen the stress outside in the people from not releasing my innerstress from my whole travel experience.
But I never really asked myself what I really want to do now, so I tried to take responsibility for the things in the outside, tried to help and organized stuff, but it never made myself really happy, because all the things what makes me stressed are the things what I didn’t completed for myself, it’s the fear where we don’t like to look, the place where we don’t allow ourself to make mistakes, so I do just the things what I can do easily.
And it reminded me of myself when I was going the way of a professional athlete from 12 years ago.
I had a intention a clear way what I want to do in life and then I just trained and set up my goals and mostly reached them.
Since I started in spirituality I have seen much more people who are not balanced and not knowing their way and running from one thing to another. There is no clear line and also because of the wrong teaching of killing the EGO.
I killed many of my egos and I can say after you do it you will start to create a new one just a little bit different. We are not here to kill something we don’t like, we are here to integrate everything, to become the balance in this polarity experience. The way of realhealing is acceptance for everything what is, and not this is black and this is white and put the black thing away. YING and YANG… if you don’t have hate you can’t experience love if we don’t experience war we can’t experience peace. So don’t judge the cocreation in a polarity world, otherwise you just make yourself more problems by running in this paincircle. The problem is many people in the spirituality are mostly in their dreams but don’t ground it, so that it could become a reality. The reason that our pain don’t go away is the fear from confronting the problems and making decisions and trying to get harmony without feeling the pain. So we constantly lie to ourself and run away instead of facing the problem and making one step forward we wait for a surprise but nothing happens and we run in circles and complain things in the outside
My advise for all who are in the situation now with different pain, look at it feel and accept it fully and it will go very fast away by itself. if you still fight against it because of your fear of not knowing where and why it comes from it will take much longer.
Open yourself for the pain and for everything what is here now
IF you want some help, I am always here to help but KNOW:
IT’S ALL YOU !!!
THE LIFE IS THE OUTCOME OF EVERY DECISION WHAT YOU MAKE NOW !!! THERE IS NO PAST OR FUTURE !!!
THERE is ONLY a NOW so make your decision NOW !!!
Come into SELF- RESPONSIBILITY !!!
STOP WAITING start DOING !!!
Life have to go on, life never stops, if I stop facing problems I would stop creating and stop living, live is a never ending process.
If you are fully in harmony you wouldn’t change anything and you would stop with going forward. Life is about learning lesson and experiences
how oftener you do it how easier it will get, like riding a bike you dont think about it anymore it becomes automatic….
THANKS for the LAISING INSTITUTE for giving me an impuls to write that
WISH YOU ALL THE BEST
i know there is still much more to explain like the reason for our acting, like it comes that in your childhood the parents imposition you or that they think that you are not capable of doing anything and then you will become a fighter to show them or you just run away ect…
its always the same mode but something important i forgot is:
it doesn´t mean that you shouldn’t help people in need or start to work together, but first you have to be clear that you are self strong enough and doing it for your own learning process and not for getting respect from the society. All the people who want to help others is for their own ego to give themself a value, we dont need to rescue earth,because earth will always exist,
we just need to clear our thoughts and start to come into action and stop lieing to ourself.
because if everyone just focus on his own thing and starts solving them, we all will have less problems!!
And it also doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t listen to your gutfeeling or heart, follow your intentions, it is the most important thing.
if you have the feeling to wait now it’s also ok but most of the times it’s the fear.but you have to feel it first inside and trust then you really can do it,
if there is still a doubt or fear you just stress yourself again with reaching something you dont allow yourself to get.
So try to be clear with your feelings, follow your intuition.
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